The pictures were shuffled and I picked a the one a man shouting to a guy where the guy was responding the hatred with a smile. I surfed internet to get the picture online, though i could not fish it out. I uploaded a similar picture though, please check it out.
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| A guy is as cool as cucumber |
The message I've gotten from the picture was how to counterattack once you're being scolded or someone beat craps out of you. No matter what you are often being chewed out when you are uttering the truth or when you are being judged of actions you'd committed. It's no longer mistake. Whoever starts the dispute and that whoever starts with shouting or scolding or storming out, they reveal their true-selves.
There's this saying by Dalai Lama when the disputes are being tried to cleared up by hatred and anger he would simply says the truth that the anger cannot be overcome with anger itself. The other way around, it results with the disappointment,. Literally, the result turns out to a disaster. On the other hand, if you are able to go over your anger and show the opposite of the anger, hatred like taking things into halfway, showing compassion, sympathy, love, patience and tolerance, then it is going to benefit both side, you and your counterpart. You will be remaining peaceful, win the game, and you will be helping your fellow's anger to diminish.
Finally, I would like to put this post lid on with Dalai Lama's tremendous quote, 'The first drawback of anger is that it destroys your inner peace, and distorts (misguides) your view of reality. If you think about this and come to understand that anger is really unhelpful, that it is only destructive, you can begin to distance yourself from anger.'
Hey me, always remember that if i don't flare up at someone who's immensely mad, angry, then I win the battle, even if it is a hard to win one.
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