Self-image

Hey there, hope you have got a brilliant, at least good, weekday. We've got an activity called self-image where you are given a picture to talk about the background story or the message alluded.

The pictures were shuffled and I picked a the one a man shouting to a guy where the guy was responding the hatred with a smile. I surfed internet to get the picture online, though i could not fish it out. I uploaded a similar picture though, please check it out.

A guy is as cool as cucumber

The message I've gotten from the picture was how to counterattack once you're being scolded or someone beat craps out of you. No matter what you are often being chewed out when you are uttering the truth or when you are being judged of actions you'd committed. It's no longer mistake. Whoever starts the dispute and that whoever starts with shouting or scolding or storming out, they reveal their true-selves.

There's this saying by Dalai Lama when the disputes are being tried to cleared up by hatred and anger he would simply says the truth that the anger cannot be overcome with anger itself. The other way around, it results with the disappointment,. Literally, the result turns out to a disaster. On the other hand, if you are able to go over your anger and show the opposite of the anger, hatred like taking things into halfway, showing compassion, sympathy, love, patience and tolerance, then it is going to benefit both side, you and your counterpart. You will be remaining peaceful, win the game, and you will be helping your fellow's anger to diminish.

Finally, I would like to put this post lid on with Dalai Lama's tremendous quote, 'The first drawback of anger is that it destroys your inner peace, and distorts (misguides) your view of reality. If you think about this and come to understand that anger is really unhelpful, that it is only destructive, you can begin to distance yourself from anger.'

Hey me, always remember that if i don't flare up at someone who's immensely mad, angry, then I win the battle, even if it is a hard to win one.

Book Review: 'Rich Man, Poor Man' (by T. C. Jupp)

Rich Man, Poor Man

I am in summer school having fun with students. We read this book that made me think of if I should ever trust anybody.

There's elderly, Adam, and  his wife, Martha were living an ascetic life in a village of Minta, India. Their only son, who were working for making a living, is in London, UK.

One fine day, a postman passed by the farm Adam and Martha working at. He delivered them a letter, a letter from his son, Saul. At first, both of them were worried because they have not got word of him for two years. Additionally, both Adam and Martha were illiterate. Therefore, they decided to call a school teacher to read the letter aloud for them.

There's this message in the letter once a school teacher read it bassly, 'Don't worry about me. I am fine. There's 100 pounds I leave for you to buy anything you would like to.' The rest of the story is quite long. Adam goes to the city of Darpur to exchange the money order with a cash.

Throughout his long three day journey to Darpur, he experienced lots of bittersweet moments that everyone of us need to take example of. He's been fooled a lot, by photographer, by businessman. At the same time, he's been treated hoggishly. Many people he met with, in Darpur, were just too disrespectful with him which later he beat craps out of this particular person, a photographer, he beat him up to death.

The moral of the story is not to trust anybody in a breeze, no matter how trustworthy he/she is.

I got this message from the book while reading. Do not trust your mind either. I mean there's times when your heart/gut doesn't think the same way as your mind/thoughts do. So, learn how to be able to question everything. Do not trust or accept things at ease.

My Lovely Pet (short story)

It was my birthday, 12th, when I asked, by my parents,  what I wanted for my birthday. At the outset, I thought they were joking around since I have never asked once if wanted anything for my birthday. They always celebrated my birthday with a cake, candles lit on. I was only asked to make a wish while puffing lights out. 'I want a little wildly predator pet' only thing I could utter since I was freaking nervous and excited.

Finally, the day come up and I ran out of my room directly downstairs to check on the knocked door. 'Is this Mr. Potters' house?' a mailman asked with smiley face holding a notebook and pen on hand. 'Yea, you are exactly staying in front of a queen Potter!' I smiled back. Mailman beamed and continued, 'Could you please sign here your excellencies?' passing the notebook and pen to me. 'Ought I need to do that?! okay, let me do it for you, then.' After the short conversation a mailman left the premise leaving a box in front of the door.

I managed to get the box in somehow. It was a dead weight box, 7 kg. I was not keyed up like I am feeling now, because I totally forgot it was my birthday. Well, I did know that it was my birthday today, but that guy (mailman) made me forget myself, I was like I went in somebody's head. Now, I am frenetic to see what is in it.

Boom! You can't be serious mom and dad. How would you both dare to do this to me?! Do you want me to die. I know you both don't like me. You could've told me that to my face. You didn't have to imply it. You both tell me now, how would I raise a crocodile at home!?

I felt like I was not needed after how my parents surprised me with the wildly violently relentlessly predator. Therefore, I decided to call my pet a Dullidle. My one year journey would start with Dullidle.

For couple months, Dullidle would give me a cold shoulder. He would refuse to eat. You won't believe it took me six months six weeks and six days to be able to sleep with him in his hearth and the edge of the room. Now, we are the best inseparable friends. Yea, he got taller, in length, and bigger. He would move slowly to my bed crawling on the tiles and would climb on my bed.

I've learned many things from Dullidle, first things first, how to be actively patient. He taught me how to never give up on him. I must presume loving someone would need this kind of  dedication, loyalty.

Never give up on anyone you love. Maybe you are the only ones for them. Even if you can't get any miracles, you can be a miracle to someone.

I changed his name (Dullidle) to Rosy (even if it sounds as a girl name).

Movie Review - School 2013, E12

Hi my dear readers, i m up here again with you. I was looking forward to meet you again. Honestly, I hate to talk about myself. Since, you're closed ones, I will only tell you how my days were in past few weeks. I don't know if i am too selfish. Luckily, i am here today, with you. Past one month, not to mention, was one of the toughest month for me. I wanted my life to be ended. I am not a suicidal tho, i don't hurt myself either, if we don't count that two days I didn't eat any single piece of bread for 24+ hour. I just feel like there's people who deserve to live, people that this world needs. Theyre getting hurt, and the thing is i m aware of it and still continue living as if nth had happened, having one of the perfect sleeps, one of the delicious meals, and one of the real smiles. That kills me, when i m not being able to share troubles of others. If this does help, i m ready to give my health to them, give ages from my life. dear all, you worth living. You all are beautiful.

This episode, E12, goes for all lovely parents who are overprotective about their children. We all were students once, or at least teenagers. They're humans as us, only couple of ages behind. Presumably, age doesn't matter sometimes. Dear parents, be sure, your children try at some level. It would be unfair to affirm they don't. Just because they're not in the same standard we want them to be, doesn't mean that they're not trying. Believe me, they do. Kind suggestion beloved parents, do not  walk towards your children intending they can do more. If they can do more, they will for sure. We can't force them to be someone or do things in the way we want them to. Sometimes, it is too much for them. They've got enough pressure both inside and outside the school. Let's have an understanding act towards our children. They're the future of the world who re going to make the world a place where everyone else can live. They'd later say black lives matter, say no to racism, a powerful weapon is education but not armoury.
Thank you so much for your precious time.

Movie Review - School 2013, Episode 8

Hello, dear ladies and gentlemen. wow, incredible, i am still wide awake (2:35AM). For the first time after a long time, iv seen more than one movie (E7 & E8, School 2013). i m here to talk about E8.

i won't take your time. I m here to summarize whole movie scene with a tremendous quote, 'Choose whatever you choose in that way so that later you ve to face the consequences of your choice'.

There's consequences of every action we've acquitted ourselves. Let's make a choice of the best out of the best. Listen to your heart and gut. They're honest with you. Later, before you give your dinal decision, just consult your brain. It often gives you reliable options if you'd hit bullseye.
Bye. I m very glad iv got you as readers. Have a great day!

Movie Review - School 2013 E7

Hi dear reading lovers, it's been quite long since i last wrote a blog post. Well, since you're my only readers i want to know this. I m not feeling good for couple months now. I don't really feel to eat. I sleep a lot. I barely breathe. I m getting lazy day by day. It's not anybody's fault though. It was my own choice. I wanted to feel how depressed people are feeling how they live with these hurdles. Believe me, even thought iv got people around, i feel lonely. sometimes, i think my overthinkings i can't help i can't stop. Apparently, i m not pressing charges against what i feel. I only wanted to share it so if you could see anybody who feels like this, do not judge them, don't let them go. maybe you're the only branch of hope to hold.
I recently ve seen E7, School 2013. I wanted to leave some comments here guys in case you want to see for review of E7.
First things first, i was adviced to watch this Korean Drama, so do i strongly suggest you to watch it, too (In case you like this Kdrama, credits goes to a person who's recommended me).
In this episode, dear friends, you will see how can a teacher be dedicated to his/her job. She set the pace for teachers who are looking forward to get rid of students who're causing problems in class. We only know their names but story behind.
Finally, i wanted to keep it short, let's be actively patient. School is not only for studying. We can't expect them to be robots, 💯 % obedient students, at the end they are human beings like us. I will see you my dear friends around very soon. Happy children' Day!